CHihil haqqe, ki bad az murdani padaru modar dar zimmai farzandon meboshad

CHihil haqqe, ki bad az murdani padaru modar dar zimmai farzandon meboshad

Padaru modarro bar farzand hashtod haq ast, chihil dar holati hayot va chihil dar holi mamot, yane badi murdani padaru modar. On chihil haqqi dar holati hayot budani padaru modarro qablan gufta guzashtem. Aknun dar khususi on chihil haqqe, ki bad az murdani padaru modar ast, sukhan mekunem.

Avval kushish namoed, ki ba zudi uro badi murdan dafn kuned, yane qabr kuned, ki azizii murda dar on ast, ki zudtar vayro dafn kunand. Farmoni shar dar on ast va uro ba tariki shar bishuyand va kafani sunnati kunand. YAne se kafan. Az se kafan ziyoda nakunand, ki isrof meshavad. Kafanro boyad az moli halol kunand. Agar qarz karda kafan kunad, lozim ast, ki qarzro zud ado kunand.

Agar sohibilm boshad, imom dar namozi janoza khudash shavad, ki sohibi mayit ust, gur yo lahad kunad, ki sunnat in ast. Mayitro meboyad dar mavzee dafn kunand, ki khasme naboshad, yane zamini digar kas naboshad. Va agar khasme boshad, bo rizoi vay kunand va dar haqqi vay duo kunand ba in tarika, ki Hudoi taolo farmudaast: “Rabbi-r-rhamhumo kamo rabbayoni sagiran”, yane, ey Parvardigori man, rahmat kun ba padaru modari man, hamchunon ki onho maro meparvaridand va rahm mekardand bar man dar holi khurdi va zaifii man.

Manii digar on boshad, ki rahmi onho dar dili man bineh, hamchunon ki rahmi man dar dili onho nihodi. Dar holi tifli va khurdsolii man va ba khok khudash nihad, ki sohibi u vay ast,

Boyad gurkanon va korkunonro khushnud kunad va agar muzd girand, muzdi onhoro kam nadihad va dar miyoni ahli saloh dafn kunand. YAne dar miyoni odamoni nek dafn kunand, na dar miyoni odamoni bad, ki az hamsoyai bad uro ranj rasad.

Qabrro ba khok va khishti khom kunand, ba chub va khishti pukhta  nakunand. Gurro ba sahro kunand, na ba khona, ki sunnat in  ast va baroi u sadaqa va duo kunand.

Qarzhoi uro niz meboyad ado kunand, vasiyathoi uro ba joy ovarand, namozhoi ziyodati ba niyati u bikhonand, yane duo  kunand, to savob ba onho rasad. Va ruzahoi ziyodati bigirand va savobashro ba u bakhshand va ba ziyorati qabri onho ravand. Ba ruhi padaru modar tilovati Quron kunand.

Rasuli akram (s) farmudand: har ki ba ziyorati qabri padaru modari khud ravad, farishtagon ba ziyorati qabri vay oyand.

Rasuli akram (s) farmudand: har ki ruzi juma yak bor ba ziyorati qabri padaru modari khud ravad, gunohoni u omurzida shavand va nomi u az nekon shavad va dar vaqti ziyorat ba takbir va salavot va duo khondan va Quron khondan mashgul shavad. Na ba navha kardan, yane nola kardan va sukhanoni nosavob va behuda guftan. CHunki onhoro az on ranj merasad. Har ki ziyorati qabri padaru modari khud kunad va dar haqqi onho duo kunad, Haq taolo hama gunohoni uro magfirat kunad. Iloho ruhi padaron va modaronro az mo shod gardoni.