Dar bayoni ehtirom kardani padaru modar

Dar bayoni ehtirom kardani padaru modar

Aknun barodaru khohari aziz, bidon, ki hurmat kardani padaru modar az vojibot va zaruriyoti islom ast, chunonchi Hudoi taolo farmuda ast, ki “vasiyat kardem insonro ba nekui kardani padaru modar”.

Rasuli akram salallohu alayhi va sallam farmudaand: har vaqto ki padaru modar farzandro ba nazdashon bikhonand, darhol hamai korhoi khudro monda nazdi padaru modari khud rafta, farmonbardorii onhoro ba jonu dil ba jo ovarad. Agar susti karda, farmoni onhoro ba jo nayorad, man bezoram az on shakhs.

Ovardaand, ki shakhse nazdi Rasuli akram ( salallohu alayhi va sallam) omadu guft; yo Rasulalloh, maro pande dih, ki dar dunyo va dar okhirat maro foida hosil shavad. Rasuli akram salallohu alayhi va sallam guftand, ki padaru modar dori?

On shakhs guft: – doram.

Paygambar (salallohu alayhi va sallam ) farmudand, ki padaru modari khudro ehtirom kun va farmonbardorii onhoro ba jo or, avval taomro bo onho khuron. Hudovand ba har luqmai taom baroyat qasre dar bihisht ato kunad.

Ovardaand, ki shakhse nazdi Rasuli akram (salallohu alayhi va sallam) omadu guft: padaru modar doram, farmonbardorii onhoro mekunamu nafaqai onhoro mediham. Bo vujudi on maro dashnomi bisyor doda, izo merasonand. Omadam, ki dar khaqqi onho chi kor kunam?

Rasul (salallohu alayhi va sallam) guftand: agar padaru modar gushti turo – pora pora kunand, hanuz chahoryaki haqqi onhoro soqit nakarda boshi. Bidon, ki bihisht dar zeri qadami padaru modaron boshad.

On shakhs guft:  Rasulalloh, valloh, ki bar padaru modari khud chize nameguyam, agarchi maro pora-pora kunand. – in gufta ba khonai khud omada, qadamhoi padaru modari khudro busa karda, guft: ey qibla va kabai man, maro Rasuli akram (salallohu alayhi va sallam ) inchunin farmud.

Ovardaand, ki Rasuli akram (salallohu alayhi va sallam) dar borai padaru modar hadisi daroz gufta dar okhiri sukhan qasam yod karda guftaand: ba hakqi on Hudoe, ki maro ba rosti ba khalq paygambar firistoda ast, har ki ba padaru modari khud nekui karda, az khud rozi gardonad, on kas hamrohi man dar bihisht boshad.

Marde az on majlis az joi khud barkhosta guft: yo Rasulalloh, agar shakhsero dar ovoni khurdi padaru modar favtida boshad, chi guna onhoro farzand rozi gardonad?

Rasuli akram (salallohu alayhi va sallam) guftand, ki az baroi padaru modari khud sadaqa kunad yo muhtojero taom dihad va qiroati Quron kunad va namozi farizaro khonda dar aqibi on az baroi magfirati padaru modar duo kunad, Alloh taolo duoi uro qabul karda  magfirat menamoyad, agarchi onho gunahgor boshand. Agar farzand dar haqqi padaru modar duo nakunad, pas on farzand oq ast.

Rasuli akram (salallohu alayhi va sallam) farmudand: khar ki ba ziyorati qabri padaru modari khud ravad, dar har qadami on Alloh taolo sad hasana, yane sad neki ato namuda, sad khatogii uro az nomai amolash bardoshta mekunad.

Rasuli akram (salallohu alayhi va sallam) farmudand: har ki nazdi padaru modari khud bo odrb nishasta hamrohi onho narm sukhan guyad, Alloh  taolo on bandaro magfirat kunad.

Ovardaand, ki dar zamoni khilofati hazrati Umar (r) tojire bud, ki ba khotiri zani khud ba modarash hej mayle namekard. Ruze modarash baroi taom ba khonai pisar omad.

Zani u guft: har ruz modari tu omada az in jo chize mebarad.

Az in sukhan pisarash chize ba modar nadoda az khona berun kard. Modar giryakunon raft. Vaqte on tojir hamrohi savdogaron ba safare baromad, dar roh az hamrohoni khud qafo mond. Rohzane baromada molhoi on savdogarro batamom girift va dasti uro burida ba gardanash ovekhta dar roh partofta raft.

Korvone omada uro bo on hol dida, ba u rahm namuda, uro ba manzilash ovardand. Heshovandoni u az baroi didani u omada guftand: in jazoi on kase ast, ki modari khudro izo doda, chize namedod. Agar ba modari khud tarahhum mekardi, molhoi tu nobud nameshudand va dasti tu burida namegardid.

Hikoyat. Ovardaand, ki shaykhe bud, ba fazlu buzurgi mashhur. Ruze on shaykh qasdi ziyorati Makkai Muazzama namud. Modare dosht, ijozat talabid, modarash rozi nashud. SHaykh mayl nakarda ravonai safar gardid. Modarash giryakunon az aqibi pisar aftoda harchand zora kard, pisar az raftan boznaistod. Sukhani modarro gush nakard. Modarash ba dardi dil duo kardu guft: Ilohi, pisaramro bo otashi judoi giriftor kun va azobi sakhtero giriftori u gardon. Pas on shaykh dar rohi Makka ravon shud. SHab ba shahre rasidu shabro dar masjide ba namoz khondan guzaronid.

Dar on shab duzde ba khonai shakhse daromad. Sohibi khona khabardor gardid. Duzd baromada gurekht. Sohibi khona az dumboli duzd shitobid. Duzd ba tarafi masjid omada goib gardid. Mardumon jam omada charog ravshan kardand va ba daruni masjid daromada didand, ki shakhse istoda namoz mekhonad, pas shaykhro basta nazdi podshohi on shakhr burdand. Podshoh farmud: dastu poi on shaykhro burandu chashmoni uro kovand va uro bardoshta dar bozorho faryod kunand, ki in jazoi shakhse ast, ki duzdi kunad.

SHaykh guft: in tariha faryod nakuned, balki gued, ki in jazoi on kase ast, ki be ijozati modar qasdi ziyorati Makka namoyad.

Bad az on mardumone, ki uro medonistandu meshinokhtand, voqearo ba podshoh khabar dodand. Podshoh pushaymon shuda uzr khost.

SHaykh guft: shumoro hej gunohe nest. Duoi badi modaram bud, ki be rizoi  baromada budam, maro ba ii balo giriftor namud. Agar khohed, ki az shumoyon khursand bosham, maro ba shahri khud, ba ibodatgokham rasoned.

Pas uro dar khalta andokhta ba khonaash ovardand. SHaykh

shunid, ki modarash dar duo meguyad: Iloho, pisaramro bar baloe giriftor kuni, ki man ba chashmi khud uro bubinam.

SHaykh az modari khud in sukhanro shunida faryod kard, ki ey zani porso, man musofiri gurusna hastam. Maro chize dihed.

Modarash guft: peshtar oy, turo none diham.

SHaykh guft: poy nadoram, ki ba sui tu ravam.

Modarash guft: dasti khudro daroz kun.

SHaykh guft: daste nadoram, ki ba sui tu daroz kunam. Modarash guft: man nomahramero nadidaam, ki baromada ba tu taom diham.

SHaykh javob dod, ki man chashm nadoram, ki ba sui tu nazar kunam.

Pas modar nonero bo hamrohi kosai ob girifta az khona baromada, nazdi pisari khud omad. SHaykh rui khudro ba qadamhoi modari khud molida poyhoi uro busa karda guft: man pisari osii tuam, ki az duoi badi tu bo in hol rasidam.

Modarash donist, ki pisarash az norozigii u bo in ahvol mubtalo shudaast. Bisyor girya kardu guft: Iloho, man az pisari khud rozi shudam, az dargohi tu metalabam, ki joni maro va joni pisaramro darhol bigiri, ki maro toqati didani u va pisaramro toqati didani mardum nest.

Darhol ba farmoni Allohtaolo modaru pisar qabzi ruh gashta ba olami khursandi rasidand.

Ovardaand, ki javone bud dar zamoni Rasuli akram salallohu alayhi va sallam. Nomi vay Alqama, hamesha toat mekard va hamaruza ruzador va shabho shabzindador bud. Banogoh u bemor shud. CHun baromadani jonash nazdik omad, zabonash dar guftani kalimai shahodat nagasht. Rasuli akram salallokhu alayhi va sallamro khabar dodand. Ali va Umarro ba nazdi u firistod. Onho harchand kalimai shahodat talqin kardand, zaboni u kor nakard.

Amiri muminin Ali raziyallohu anhu Bilolro nazdi Rasuli akram salallohu alayhi va sallam firistodu az on hol khabar dod, Rasuli akram salallohu alayhi va sallam farmudand, ki Alqama padaru modar dorad? Guftand modari pire dorad. Rasuli akram salallohu alayhi va sallam farmudand, to modari uro ovardand.

Rasuli akram salallohu alayhi va sallam guft: – ey pirazan, maro az holi Alkama khabar kun, ki zindagonii vay bo tu chi guna bud?

Guft: yo Rasulalloh, bisyor neku va parhezgor bud, ammo  man az vay rozi nestam, ki u rizoi zani khudro az rizoi man bolo medonad.

Rasuli akram ( salallohu alayhi va sallam) farmud: az hamin jihat ast, ki zaboni u dar band shudaast, ey pirazan, uro bihil kun, to zaboni u kushodashavad.

Pirazan guft: yo Rasulalloh, u dar hakki man chafoi bisyor  kardaast, uro bihil nakunam.

Rasuli akram (salallohu alayhi va sallam ) farmud: yo Bilol, rafta mardumro davat kun, to hezum cham kunand, Alqamaro bisuzem, ki modarash az vay rozi nest.

Modarash guft: yo Rasulalloh, farzandamro dar peshi nazaram bisuzi, dilam toqat namekunad.

Rasuli akram (salallohu alayhi va sallam ) guftand: ey pirazan, otashi duzakh az otashi dunyo suzontarast, chun tu az vay rozi nesti, hej toati vay maqbuli dargohi Ilohi nest.

Pirazan chun in shunid, faryod barovard, ki yo Rasulallokh, man az vay rozi shudamu uro bihil kardam.

Modar chun ba dari khona omad, ovozi Alqama shunid, ki kalimai shahodat meguft va u hamon ruz vafot yoft.

Rasuli akram (salallohu alayhi va sallam) bar vay namoz kard va uro dafn kardu guft: ey guruhi musulmonon, har kase qadru qimati zani khudro az kadru qimmati modarash ziyoda kunad, dar lanati Hudoi taolo va farishtagon boshad va Hudovand farzu nafli vayro kabul nakunad. Az ranjonidanu nokhushnudii eshon parhez boyad kard, ki kori dushvor ast va azobi u bisyor.

Rasuli akram ( salallohu alayhi va sallam) farmudand: shakhsero padaru modar rozi naboshad, Alloh taolo joni uro ba gayri kalimai shahodat barovarda, ruzi kiyomat dar peshonaash navishta meshavad, ki in banda oqi padaru modar ast.

Farmudand Rasuli akram ( salallohu alayhi va sallam), ki Hudoi taolo az on banda rozi boshad, ki padaru modar az u rozi boshad va har bandae, ki padaru modari u rozi naboshad, Alloh taolo on bandaro ba gazabi khud giriftor karda, bo otashi duzakh andozad.

Rasuli akram (salallohu alayhi va sallam) farmudand, ki du gunoh ast, ki inson, albatta, azobi onro dar dunyo mebinad va ham dar okhirat: yake zulm kardan bar bandagoni Hudovand, duyum ozor dodani padaru modar. Boqii gunohonro mumkin ast, ki Hudoi taolo darguzarad yo azobi onhoro dar qiyomat binad.

Hikoyat. SHakhse nazdi Rasuli akram (salallohu alayhi va sallam) omadu guft: yo Rasulalloh, modaram piri barjomonda shudaast, luqmai taomi uro dar dahonash meguzoram va uro obi tahorat mediham. Uro bar gardani khud meniham va ba tahoratjoy mebaram. Magar haqqi vayro ba jo ovarda bosham, yo ne?

Rasuli akram (s salallohu alayhi va sallam) farmudand, ki az sad haqqi vay yaktoashro ado nakarda boshi.

Dar hadis omadaast, ki bui bihisht hargiz ba dimogi ozordihandai padaru modar namerasad va bui duzakh hargiz ba dimogi nekudorandai padaru modar narasad.

Ovardaand, ki ruze shakhse vafot kard. Uro chun dar gur nihodand, az gurash ovozi khar meomad. Sababi onro pursidand guftand, ki ruze chun modarash sukhan meguft, modarro: ey khar, khomush bosh,-gufta bud.

Modarash az in sukhan ranjida gufta bud: Haq taolo turo dar gur khar gardonad, aknun az gurash ovozi khar meoyad.

Agar rizoi haq mekhohi, dar rizoi padaru modar bikush.

Jannat, ki maqomi sarvaron ast,

Dar zeri qudumi modaron ast.

Hohi, ki rizoi Haq biyobi.

On kun, ki rizoi modaron ast.

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Volidayn az har kase khushnud nest,

On kasash shoistai mabud nest.

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Iloho, ba hurmati rizoi tu va rizoi padaru modaron hamai musulmononro tavfiqi khushnud kardan va farmonbardori namudani farzandon ato namoi, ki dar zindagi rizoi padaru modaronro yoband va badi margashon arvohi onkhoro bo fotiha va tilovati kuronu sadaqa khushnud gardonand. Omin, ba hurmati hazrati sayidu-l-mursalin salallohu alayhi va sallam.