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Ruzi oshiqon 14 fevral (Valentinka)

Savol: Ruzi oshiqon kay? Bo vujudi bahshoi tuloni va mavji mahkumiyat ba khusus az jonibi dindoron, Ruzi Valentin hamchun Ruzi oshiqon dar Tojikiston soltosol maruftar meshavad. Va agar qablan domanai tajlili in jashn beshtar bo javononi shahrnishin mahdud meshud, holo Ruzi oshiqon batadrij ba berun az shahrhoi Tojikiston niz poy meguzorad.

Boznashr az «Akhbor» Munosibat ba Ruzi Valentin yo Ruzi oshiqon dar Tojikiston hamchunon mutanoqiz boqi memonad.

YAk qismi mardum in idro khilofi sunnathoi dini Islom va ham mukholif ba ananahoi mardumi tojik khonda, tajlilashro baroi yak musalmon hatto gunoh meshumorand. Ammo iddai digar dar in ruz ba sui dukonhoi gulfurushivu magozahoi shirinifurushi va hatto jonibi magozahoi javohirot meshitoband, to Ruzi oshiqonro baroi dustdoshta yo hamsari khud ba yak ruzi farmoushnoshudani va sarshor az ishqu muhabbat tabdil dihand. Nazari mardumi mo ba Ruzi Valentin yakson nabud.

Ruzi oshiqonro

SHarif Ismoilov, yak javon, ki khudro sokini poytakht muarrifi namud, dar suhbati biduni mikrofon guft: «Dar yagon joi dini mubini Islom ovarda nashudaast, ki baroi oshiqon makhsus ruz ast va onro jashn bigired. Har kase in ruzro etirof mekunad, u az mo nest.»

Ammo Manijai Hurshed, ki khudro donishjui Donishgohi slavyani guft, Ruzi oshiqonro yak payti munosib baroi oshti shudan bo javoni dustdoshtaash meshumorad va meguyad, khele boz muntaziri in ruz va in payt bud: «Ruzi oshiqon baroyam khele pisand ast, chunki khotiri mahbubamro bo tuhfai khurdakak ham boshad, shod megardonam. Du moh meshavad, ki bo ham qahriem va dar in ruz khudam baroyash tuhfa taqdim mekunam va sababi dubora payvastani mo hamin ruz megardad. Bigzor chunin ruz boshadu ba misli man digar oshiqoni qahri bo ham oshti shavand.”

Kay paydo shudaast Ruzi oshiqon? Tarikhi Ruzi Valentin, bino ba rivoyatho, az yak rohibi masehie bo nomi Valentin ogoz megirad, ki bar khilofi farmoni sultoni Rum Klavdiy sarbozoni zarkharidi sultonro bo dustdoshtahoyashon aqdi nikoh mebast. Klavdiy az tarsi inki sarbozoni zarkharid (legioner) badi izdivoj jasorati kofi nishon namedihand va shoyad hatto az maydoni jang bigurezand, izdivojro baroyashon man karda bud.

Ammo nomanavisi ba dustdoshtai khud dar Ruzi Valentin dar asrhoi miyona rivoj yoft. Nakhustin chunin noma, ki to imruz dar osorkhonai Britoniyo mahfuz ast,500 sol muqaddam, dar soli 1477 navishta shudaast. In maktub avvalin bor dar namoishnomai bakhshida ba hazorsolagii adabiyoti anglis peshkashi ommai vase gardonida shud. Darin noma dukhtarak az mahbubash khostori isboti ishqi u shudaast. Javon boshad, dar nomai javobi menavisad, ki tavassuti modarash bo izdivoj bo in dukhtar hatman noil khohad shud.

Az ogozi asri XIX taqdimi tuhfahoi kogazi yo ba istiloh «valentinka”-ho dar Ruzi Valentin ba mud daromad. Dar avvalho az kogazhoi siyohu safed har namud ramzhoi oshiqona, ba monandi «dil” , «gul” meofaridand. Badtar joi kogazhoi siyohu safedro kogazhoi ranga va rangi davoi ishgol kard. Dar rui chunin kogazho navishtajothoi muhabatomez menavishtand va muhabbati khudro bayon mekardand. Ba monandi «I love you”, «Love is…”-ro joy medodand. Har oshiq ishqashro az rui fahmishu zehn va hasosiyati khesh tahiya mesokht. Jiddiho jidditar, odiho odditar menavishtand. Akshoi dil, ki dokhilash bo lukht ( mochalka) pur karda shudaaast, makhsusan agar rangi surkh doshta boshand, kharidoroni beshtar doshtu dorand.

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