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Usulhoi aloqai jinsi

Usuli goyidan – aloqai jinsi: Mekhohed, ki dar borai aloqai jinsi (aloqai jinsi) harchi ziyodtar malumot ba zaboni tojiki bigired? Pas matni mazkur baroyaton nihoyat mufid ast.

Ba zaboni tojiki kalimai «Seks» dar bayni mardum jamchun «Goyidan» yo «Goy-goyak» malum ast. Hud seks kalimai anglisi «Sex» buda manoyash  aloqai jinsi meboshad. YAne seks aloqai jinsi mardona «Ker» va zanona «Kus» va yo bayni du hamjins yane «Zan va Zan»  yo «Mard va Mard» meboshad.

usulAlbata dar khondani in matn shumo shoyad dar hayrat moned, ki chunin mavod dar interenet monda shudaast va magar in sharmandagi nest. Lek kayd kard, ki dar in tahiyai in matn harakat karda shudaast, ki dar borai seks baroi mardumi dorandai zaboni tojiki ba lafzi omafahm khele soda karda bayon karda shavad, to in ki onho dar mavridi aloqai jinsi tasavuroti durust va beshtarro girifta dar zindagi ba khatogiho roh nadihand. In zaruriyati zamona ast va khubtarash ilmi ziyodtar dar borai aloqai jinsi donist nazar ba one, ki az bekhabari ba har guna kambudiho roh dodan. In matn pesh az hama ba javonon va khususan oiladorshavho khelo mufid ast.

Bubined, ki imruzho dar bayni kudakon va khususan pisarbachaho az sini nihoyat khurd va hatto 2-3 solagi ba haqoratkuni mashgul buda iborai «Ochata bugom», «Megomta», «Bugomta», «Dar kusat gom», «Dar kunut bgom» va gayrahoro meshunaved, ki in nishonai madaniyati pasti mardumi farzandoru jamiyati in kudakonro meparvarida meboshad.

Bazei kalonsolon ba sinu soli khudu sini kudakon nigoh nakarda bemasuliyatona ba onho hakoratkuniro meomuzonand va az duri khandida meshinand, ki chi khel bo haqorathoi shahvati yakdigariro dashnom mekunand. CHunin amalhoi dashnomi durusht dar joyhoi jamiyati na ba nishonahoi balandi insonparvari rost nameoyad va na ba talabotkhoi dini Islom.

Seks na tanho bayni odam ba amal meoyad balki bayni hayvonho, parandaho, khazandaho va qarib bayni hammai jonvaroni zinda. Aloqai jinsi (seks) dar baze kholatho bayni chande az hayvonkho bo nazardoshti sokhti tabiatii khud ba amal nameoyad, ki ba misoli on organizmkhoi khurd chun «Amyoba» meboshad.

Baroi chi seks – aloqai jinsi lozim va tarzhoi on kadomhoyand?

Seks ba tojiki oddi karda guem – goygoyak in amalest ki baroi qone kardani talabothoi shahvonii joni zinda meboshad. Seks in kayf va vositai baland kardani tab (nastroenie) meboshad. Az kayfi seks yagon chiz ziyodtar kayf namedihad va hatto geroinu araq. Hisyoti shahvonii dar sinu soli muayyan ba miyon meoyad va inro ba zaboni islomi «sini balogat» meguyand. Baroi odam sini balogat 8-9 sol ogoz metavon bud va in vobasta ba chins ast. YAne dar sini 8 solagi alakay dukhtaron metavonand dar natijai aloqai jinsi hisyoti uzvi jinsii khudro paydo karda ba bordor shudan sababgor shavand. Pisaron boshand metavonand alakay dar sinu soli 10-12 dukhtaronro bordor karda padar shavand. Lek az nigohi qonun sini balogat az 16-18 solagi bolo ast.

Asosan seks baroi afzoishi shumorai joni zinda tavasutti aloqai jinsi muqobil lozim ast. Lek solhoi okhir alakay odamizod shumorai ziyod shudani joni zindaro be seks ham daryoftaast va inro «Bororshavii sunni» va yo «Parvarishi suni» menomand.

NAMUDHOI TARZI SEKS BO DUHTAR:

Tojiki oddi zeri mafhumi seks faqat aloqai mard va zanro mefahmad, vale in holat na dar hama vaqt chuni nast. Aloqai jinsi metavonad bayni zanho va yo bayni mardho ba miyon va chunin tarzi aloqai jinsiro gomoseksualist meguyand. Boz holathoe khastand, ki khamzamon bayni chinskhoi gunogun alokai jinsi ba vuqu payvandad va inro biseksualizm meguyand. Masalan agar marde ham bo mardi digare metonad aloqai jinsi namoyad va ham bo zane seks kunad. Agar mard bo mardi digar aloqai jinsi kunad pas onro kunte  meguyand va agar mard mardi digarro goyad pas uro «Bachaboz» yo “Bachabozi” meguyand. Lek agar zan bo zani digar aloqai jinsi kunad pas onhoro «Lesbiyanka», meguyand.

Savole ba miyon meoyad, ki charo bayni du chinsi ba kham monand alokai chinsi ba miyon meoyad.  Javob dar on ast, ki in nafaron az nigohi ilmi tib bemorand va tabobati chunin kasal qarib ki nest. Dar mamlakatkhoi avrupoi va Amriko aloqahoi jinsi az nigohi davlat qonuni ast va hatto jamiyat onro be yagon nazari bad etirof mekunad. Lek dar davlathoi musalmoni va davlathoi Osiyo aloqai jinsie, ki bayni hamjinson ba vuqu mepayvandad, amali gayriqonuni buda mahkum va jazo doda meshavad. YAne Islom tanho aloqai jinsii bayni mardu zanro ijozat dodaast.

USULHOI SEKS KARDAN

            Dar poyayon usulhoi qoidahoi seks – aloqai jinsi kardanro nombar karda shudaast, ki baroi istifoda burdan mufid ast.

  1. Baroi aloqai jinsi kardan pesh az hama sinu soli az jihati qonuni dar balogat budani ishkvarzon ba inobat girifta shavad. Dar Tojikiston baroi ba aloqai jinsi mashgul budan na kam az 18 sol boyad dosht. Hangomi in meyor rioya nashudan nafaroni jinoyatkor shoyad mujozotonida meshavand va hatto habs karda shavand;
  2. Rozigii tarafayni ishqvarzon (Mard va ham Zan). Dar holati ijro nashudan mujozot to habs shudan peshbini shudaast. Barobari in rozigii kheshon, volidayn va hatto dustu hamsoyaho niz ba mavrid ast.
  3. Mukhabbat (Ishk), khamdigarfakhmi va ekhtirom. To in ki akhdi bastashavanda purzur, durudaroz, kamzarar va khub boshad pesh az amali ishkvarzi – seks tavsiya karda meshavad, ki bo on nafare in munosibatro ba rokh mond, ki agar in unsurkhoi nombarshuda mavchud boshand.
  4. Az nuktai nazari tib baroi alokai chinsi kardani ishtirokchiyon salomati bardavom doshta boshand va ba bemorikhoi-kasalikhoi khavfnok mubtalo nashuda boshand. Dar kholati rioya nashudani in talabot az ogozi soli 2016 shakhsoni gunakhkor shoyad ba chavobgarii mamuri kashida meshavand va bar ilovai in dar natichai chunin aloka metavon farzandoni nosolim paydo shavad, ki baroi chamiyat va khudi khamon kudakon zindagi dushvoru dakhshatovar shavad. Masalan kudakoni ba bemorii VICH/SPID mubtaloshuda tavallud shuda favtand va in gunokhi volidaynon va chamiyat shavad.
  5. Akhdi konuni dar borai oiladori kardan. YAne kaydi Sabti asnodii kholati shakhrvandi (SAHSH  ZAGS) dar idorai davlati peshaki ba kayd girifta shavad. Dar kholati rioya nakardani in talabot shoyad muchozoti mamuri az tarafi makomotkhoi davlati, peshbini shavand.
  6. Baroi shakhsoni musalmon akhdi islomi yane, Nikokh kardan zarur ast. Dar kholati be nikokh alokai chinsi kardan obrui shakhsoni ishkvarz va nazdikoni onkho dar bayni chamiyat past shuda norokhatii rukhii durudarozi chandinsolai onkho meshavad.
  7. Ba inobat giriftani ruzi khayz. Ba zankhoe, ki ruzi khayzroniashon meboshad ba mardkho inro khabar dikhand va ichozati alokai chinsiro nadikhand. Zero dar davrai khayzronii zankho, ki takriban dar yak mokh yak marotiba ruy medikhadu dar on khunravi az badan tavasuti chinsi zanona ruy medikhad emin doshatan az voridshavii kharguna chism ba dokhili zan emin doshtan lozim. Vagarna yagon mikrob yo virus ba dokhili zan daromada bemorii vaznin shudan ekhtimol dorad.
  8. Tozagii badan. Pesh az alokai chinsi, pok kardani badan ba ishtirokchiyoni seks kafolati rokhati ziyod va bekhatari az khar guna bemorikho beshtar ast. Baroi in obozi (gusl) kardan, pok kardani badan az mui nolozima ki dar tagi kash (dast), bayni po, va khatto choi baromadani makhrach. Dar kholati ichro nakardani in talabot ishtirokchiyoni alokai chinsi kayfiyati kamtar megirand va khatto in metavonad baroi barpo nashudani alokai chinsi va barkham khurdani alokai minbadai durudaroz shavad. Inchunin az bui bad (badbuy) nafrati kasro metavonad bayni yakdigar paydo namoyad va munosibai chinsdoron bad kunad.
  9. Zeb dodani badan. Zebi mui sar, ovekhtani khar guna mavodkhoi zebanda az chumla: khalka, soat, angushtarin va gayra. Dar kholati zeb nadodan ishtirokchiyoni seks chandon tabashon baland shoyad nashavad. Baroi in peshaki pursidan az yakdigar shoyad foida dikhad.
  10. Libosi khubu alo pushidan. Harakat namoed, ki libosi shumo nav, zebo va toza boshad. Lek libosi ziyod vakti ogozi seksro medorad va metonad tabi kasro khira kunad. Libose pushed, ki ba chinsi mukobil makul shavad. Masalan shakhsone khastand, ki libosi avrupoiro dust medorand vale shumo bo libosi milli onro chandon ba larza nameored.
  11. Hushbuy kardan. Istifodai atr, sobun, shampun, dukhi, dizodarant, krem va gayrakho shakhvonii kasro ziyod karda tapishi dilro ziyod mekunad va
  12. Odobi muomila. Pesh az alokai chinsi kardan (seks) nafaron kharchi khub muomila namoyand, khamon kadar seksi onkho shirinu duru daroz va payvasta meshavad.
  13. Sukhani bekhuda naguftan. Dar vakti seks sukhan kardan tavsiya karda nameshavad, chun ki sukhankhoi gunogun metavonad fikro pareshon karda seksro barkham dikhad. Ba bazekho sukhankhoi shirin ba misli muramta, khuramta, tu az mani, choni shirin, tu bukkachai man, fasonaki man, va digar sukhankhoi laziz shakhvati kasro baland karda ba zud baromadani kayf musoidat mekunad.
  14. SHarmi ziyod. Dar vakti seks odatan tochikon va khususan dukhtaroni tochik benikhoyat sharmgin khastand. Az yak chikhat in durust vale sharmi ziyod in bekhabari az lazzati kayfi seks ast va az digar taraf in metavonad kayfi digar nafarro shikanad. Bazekho az sharmi ziyod khatto az ba tars aftida ba bemorikhoi rukhi meaftand. Baroi khamin kham dukhtaronro tavsiya ast, ki pesh az alokai chinsi bo zankhoi kalonsoli khiradmand vobasta ba seks malumoti kofi girand.
  15. Ba chashmi yakdigar nigaristan. Inson khangomi ba chashmi yakdigar nigaristan tapishi dilash ziyod meshavad va mukhabbati ziyoda shuda alokai chinsi asaltar meshavad. Ba chashmi yakdigar nigaristan na tankho pesh az seks balki tuli tamomi vokhurikho kayfiyatro ziyoda megardonad.
  16. Dar choyi orom va foram. Harakat kuned, ki choyi seks mekardagi az ovozi mardum, khayvonkho, nakliyot va gayrakho dur boshad. Vagarna shumoro pareshonkhol karda kayfro vayron mekunad. Baroi bazekho choyi oromu foram daruni moshin ast va in vobasta ast az tabi khudi khamon odam.
  17. CHogakhi narmu toza va bodu khavoi toza. Asosan bisyorii mardum baroi seks kardan choyi muloim, toza va khavoi foram doshtaro intikhob mekunad, toin ki rokhat ba darachash shavad.
  18. SHikami ser. Bekhuda dar bayni mardakkho rivoyat nest, ki shikami ser kuvvati ker. YAne dar asl alokai chinsi amali khelo serkharakat ast va dar in mavrid mardkho bisyor kharakat karda kuvvai khudro ziyod sarf mekunand va baroi khamin kham shikami onkho boyad az gizokhoi foidanoktar pur boshad. Masalan kharbuza, gushtbiryon, chormagz, bodom, pista, achir va khavlo khelo foidanok ast baroi chi zan va chi mard.
  19. Tabi bolida doshtan. Harakat kuned, ki pesh az seks tabi khudro khira nakuned va bo kase chand nashaved. Tabi khira mardinai mardakro va kayfi shakhsro gum mekunad va seks be natichavu berokhat meshavad.
  20. Surudu taronai khub mondan. Faromush nakuned, ki dar vakti seks surudi orom va khususan okhangi foram yori ba asalshavii alokai chinsi musoidat mekunad.
  21. Honai na chandon toriku ravshan va khilvat. Honai nikhoyat torik baroi nadidani badani kas sabab meshavad va kas metonad az nadidani badan chandon rokhati ziyod nabinad. Inchunin ravshanii ziyod niz ba sharmi ziyod meorad. Baroi khamin khona boyad nimtorik boshad.
  22. Oson kardani alokai chinsi. Bazekho seksro mushkil mekunand va az in lazzati ziyod namegirand. Tavsiya meshavad, ki dar seks kharakatu shaklkhoi gunoguni seksro istifoda barand va in imkoniyat medikhad ki seks baroyaton zavkmandatr dar solkhoi tuloni shavad. Garchande kas pir shavadu vale khelkhoi seksro gunogun kunad pas baroi sharikash in shavkovar va sertalabtar meshavad.
  23. Istifodai mavodhoi hifzkunanda. Agar shariki shumo va yo khudaton bemorii guzaranda doshta boshed va yo nadoned, ki salomatii bardavomro sharkaton dorad pas khudro bo mavodhoi hifzkunanda az kasaliho emin dored. Masalan istifodai prezervativ.
  24. Tamosho kardani mavodhoi pornografi yo khurdani doru. Holathoe hastand, ki hisyoti shahvoni past ast va zaruriyati yorii chize yo kase lozim. Dar in holat doruhoi makhsusi yoridihanda va yo tamosho kardani mavodhoi pornografi niz metonad yordam kunad, ki seks barpo shavad.

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