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Agar dukhtari tojik ba shahrvandi khoriji dil bandadu, rozi boshad bo u izdivoj kunad, az rui kadom qoidaho boyad tuy barpo kard
Pas az tamoshoi multfilmhoi Disney, ehtimol har yak dukhtarak orzui izdivoj bo khorijiro mekunad. Hayolho tasvir mekashand, ki chi tavr javoni nozanini afsonavi arusi khudro, ba kishvari digar mebarad. Kudaki ba okhir merasad, ammo orzuho boqi memonand va hatto ba voqeiyat tabdil meyoband.
Sarguzashti tarbiyavi dar borai intikhobi arus
YAke az dustoni olmonii man qaror dod, bo ducharkha kishvarhoi Osiyoi Markazro gardad. In soli 2003-yum bud.
Va hamin tavr, zamoni safar bo ducharkha dar Turkmaniston, u ba sadama duchor meshavad. Zinda mond, vale dar bemorkhonahoi mahalli chand vaqt khobid. Dar on jo nemisi mo, tahti zebogivu nozu karashmai sharqii hamshirai shafqati turkmandukhtare, ki uro tabobat mekard, garq meshavad.
Bo yak azobe vay tavonist ba olihai khud muhabbatashro fahmonad va dili uro ba dast orad. Hamshirai shafqat sharmginona javob medihad, ki u aslan zid nest, vale muvofiqi qavonini kishvari onho shakhsi khorijie, ki mekhohad bo dukhtari turkman izdivoj kunad, boyad haddi aqqal 50 hazor dollar ba hisobi jorii Tashkiloti bimai davlati guzaronad.
Holo in qoidaho bekor karda shudaand, vale on vaqt “tobishhoi” gunoguni qonunguzorii Turkmaniston olmonii bointizomro ba shur ovarda bud.
SHumo, ehtimolan, hikoyaero intizored, ki dar on Romeo az Frankfurt dar mehrobi khushbakhtii oilavi dilu pulhoi khudashro guzoshtta bud, vale majburam, ki shumoro noumed kunam. Dar kanori chapi qafasi sinai nemisi, arifmometri favqulodda daqiq kor mekard, bino bar in, naqshahoi khayoli dar yak on az sari u paridandu, dusti mo ham ba khona tanho bargasht.
CHiguna dar Tojikiston ba khoriji shavhar mekunand
Dar Tojikiston az shahrvandi khoriji hej guna boji puli talab nameshavad, ammo yak qator sharthoero domodshavanda boyad ijro kunad.
“Soli 2011 ba Kodeksi oilai Jumhurii Tojikiston isloh shud, ki tibqi onho agar yake az tarafho shahrvandi khoriji boshad, boyad dar Tojikiston na kamtar az 12 moh pesh az tuy zindagi karda boshad, shartnomai nikoh imzo kunad va uhdador shavad, ki zanu farzandoni oyandaashro bo manzil tamin mekunad”, — sharh medihad huquqshinos Anvar Saidov.
Hukumat inro gamkhori nisbati zanho menomad, ki dar holati aks, aksaran pas az taloqu judo shudan (dar zindagi hama holatho rukh medihand), metavonand be khonayu dar monand.
Dar ayni zamon, daleli digarero meorand: hifzi sokinoni Tojikiston az qochoqi inson. Ba har hol, mahdudiyathoi muqarrargardida ba onhoe, ki bo khorijiyon izdivoj kardaand, tasiri manfi rasonidaast.
“Kor to joe rasid, ki dar soli 2017 Kumitai SMM oid ba barhamdihii tabizi najodi az Tojikiston davat namud, ki ijozat dihad to zanho ozodona bo khorijiyon izdivoj kunand”, — idoma medihad Saidov.
Muvofiqi malumoti Idorai sabti asnodi holathoi shahrvandii Vazorati adliyai Tojikiston, dar nimai avvali soli 2017-49 izdivoj bo shahrvandoni khoriji ba qayd girifta shudaast. Dar soli 2016 chunin izdivojho 184-to bud. Hohishmandonro hatto afzoishi pardokhti andozi davlati baroi khonadorshavandagon khalal narasond, ki hajmash az 80 to 200 somoni (22,5 dollar) bud.
Dar bayni domodhoi khoriji, ki khohishmandoni ba dast ovardani dastu dili arusoni tojik hastand, shahrvandoni Afgoniston va Eron, bo sababi hamzabonivu hamdini, peshsafand.
Segonai peshsafonro rusho anjom medihand. Ammo dar in jo omori komilan daqiq vujud nadorad, zero on izdivojhoe, ki dar qalamravi FR ba amal meoyad, ba hisob girifta nameshavad. Hodisahoi yagonai baqaydgirii nikoh bo mardhoi Litva va CHin vujud dorad.
Dar Afgoniston hatto tajribai ommavii zanghoi biduni nizom ba Tojikiston dar robita ba justujui dildodagon, ba vujud omadaast. Mardoni mahalli dar mintaqahoi nazdisarhadii JT, ba monandi Badakhshon, Tahor va Qunduz, simkorthoi operatoroni mobilii tojikro mekharand, ki tavassuti onho metavon shumorahoi telefonhoi dasti dar masofai 10-50 km az nazdi sarhad, zang zad.
Sipas, onho ba raqamhoi tasodufi zang mezanand va agar ovozi zan javob dihad, kushish mekunand, ki bo sohiboni telefonho shinos shavand. Bazan chunin oshiqihoi mobili bo tuy meanjomad.
Vale dar ayni zamon, izdivoj bo shahrvandi khoriji na hamesha manoi ba dast ovardani khushbakhtii oilaviro dorad.
Domodho az kishvarhoi musulmoni aksar vaqt huzuri khonumhoi khudro dar khona pinhon mekunand, ki dar natijai on, arusi tojik ba fitnai onho medaroyad va mefahmad, ki u zani duyum, seyum va yo chorumu panjum dar in haram shudaast.
Mutaassifona, vaziyathoi az in badtar ham hast. Mohi guzashta dar yak payomi videoii shabakahoi ijtimoi shahrvandi Tojikiston Bibisumayo Qulova, ki bo eronie izdivoj karda budaast, paydo shud. Dukhtari javoni tojik hamrohi shavhari khud dar shahri CHorbahori Eron chand sol zindagi karda budaast, vale badan “qaiqi muhabbat ba sangi hayot barkhurdaastu, pora-pora gashtaast”, va jufti hamsaron niz parokanda shudaand.
Tojikzan ba shahri Hamadon kuchida, dar on jo se sol kor va zindagi kardaast. Dar mohi dekabri soli 2015 u az jonibi pulis baroi itmomi muhlati ravodid dastgir shuda, ba khadamoti makhsusi eroni supurda meshavad. Zanro baroi josusi ba manfiati Tojikiston aybdor kardand. Tibqi hukmi dodgoh, vay dar zindoni Tehron 2 solro pasi sar kard.
Ba dukhtaroni tojike, ki bo khorijiyon izdivoj mekunand, chi tavr munosibat mekunand
Dar jomeai tojik, chun qoida, izdivoji dukhtar bo shahrvandi khorijiro namepazirand, novobasta az khohishi khudi dukhtar.
Aksari mardon ba muhojirati mehnati meravand va bisyor vaqtho dar on jo oilahoi duvvumu seyum barpo va dar borai khonavodahoi kuhnaashon faromush mekunand.
Baze faolon baroi bekor kardani qonun dar borai bisyorzani dar Tojikiston talosh mekunand to in ki zanhoi taloqshuda yo dukhtaroni bokira tavonand khushbakhtii oilaviyashonro dar dokhili Tojikiston yoband, novobasta az shumorai tartibii hamsar.
Ammo faoloni huquqi bashar ziddi in korand va meguyand, ki bisyorzani ba standarthoi qabulshuda muqobil ast, zero dar in hol barobarii mardu zan poymol megardad.
Kiro va dar kujo metavon sitorai hayoti khud nomid? In dar voqe kori shakhsii har shakhs ast! Bo khatare, ki az har taraf javobhoi gazabnoki feministkaho sar mezanand, man boyad guyam, ki arushoi tojik nisbat ba namoyandagoni az had ziyod ozodbudai hamjinsonashon dar baze davlatho, ba kulli farq mekunand.
Tojikdukhtaron sardorii mardonro dar khonavoda rad namekunand, ozodii khudro bahudavu behuda dar mazhari om nameguzorand, sohibkhonazanhoi khele oli va modaroni bisyor mushfiqu gamkhorand.
Ammo ba aqidai man, agar qalbi shumoro tiri Kupidon surokh karda daromada boshad, pas ba rangi shinosnomai dildodai khud va digar moneahoi byurokrati nigoh nakuned. Muhabbat, agar voqei boshad, tamomi moneahoro dar rohi khud parokanda mekunad, va on vaqt ba shumo muyassar megardad, ki orzui shirini ananavii tojikonro shunaved: “Muborak boshadu, juftpir shaved!”.
